Cocktails & Vibes

Cocktails and Vibes: The Best Spots in Tulsa for a Perfect Night Out

Look, we’ve all been there—after a long week, there’s nothing quite like kicking back with a well-crafted cocktail. But here’s the catch: it’s not just about the drink. Sure, a perfectly balanced Old Fashioned or a mind-blowing Margarita is a must, but the vibe is everything. You want a place where the atmosphere is just as good as the cocktail in your hand. A spot where you can sip, relax, and maybe even take a pic for the ’gram (because, you know, it didn’t really happen unless it’s on social).

Lucky for us, Tulsa is absolutely killing the game when it comes to cocktail bars that not only serve up some of the best drinks in town but also have vibes so good you’ll want to stay all night. Whether you're meeting up with friends, going on a date, or just looking to unwind solo, these are the top spots in Tulsa where cocktails and ambiance go hand-in-hand. Let’s get into it.

Valkyrie: For the Cocktail Connoisseur

Over in the Tulsa Arts District, you’ll find Valkyrie—a place that’s all about the cocktails. These folks take their mixology seriously, but don’t worry, there’s no pretentiousness here. It’s the kind of spot where you can tell the bartender what flavors you like and they’ll whip up something custom, just for you.

Their menu is always changing based on what’s fresh and in season, but if you’re not sure where to start, go for the Bee’s Knees or the Corpse Reviver #2 (a personal favorite of Mark’s). The drinks are strong, balanced, and absolutely delicious.

Vibe Check: Sleek, industrial, and laid-back—perfect for when you’re out with friends or just want to sip something strong in a moody atmosphere.

The Bull in the Alley: Hidden Speakeasy Vibes

If you want to impress someone (or just treat yourself), head to The Bull in the Alley. This place isn’t just a bar—it’s an experience. Located in an actual alley (you’ll feel like you’ve stepped into a secret speakeasy), the whole vibe screams exclusivity.

Their cocktail menu is filled with classic options, but the Martini is where it’s at. It’s smooth, perfectly chilled, and will make you feel like you’re channeling your inner James Bond.

Vibe Check: Dark, mysterious, and ultra-luxe. Perfect for date night or when you want to feel a little fancy.

Saturn Room: Tiki Fun Without the Beach

If you’re craving something a little more fun and tropical, Saturn Room is your spot. This tiki-themed bar is all about the island vibes—think bamboo décor, colorful lights, and drinks served in those adorable tiki mugs. You’ll feel like you’ve been transported to a tropical island, minus the plane ticket.

Order the Mai Tai or the Painkiller, and get ready for some seriously strong rum drinks. Bonus: They often serve your cocktails with little umbrellas, which is exactly the vibe we all need sometimes.

Vibe Check: Fun, tropical, and super laid-back. Great for groups or anyone looking to pretend they’re on vacation for the night.

Amelia’s: Rooftop Drinks with a View

Sometimes you just want to sip a cocktail while watching the sunset, and for those moments, Amelia’s has you covered. Their rooftop bar is one of the best places in Tulsa to grab a drink, take in the view, and relax with friends.

When it comes to cocktails, Amelia’s keeps it classy. Their Paloma is top-tier, and the Negroni is about as perfect as it gets. But honestly, with that view, everything just tastes better up here.

Vibe Check: Rooftop magic with a side of luxury. Perfect for a chill evening with a view.

MixCo: Chill Vibes with Serious Drinks

Located right across from the BOK Center, MixCo is the go-to spot for a casual drink before or after a show. But don’t let the chill vibes fool you—the cocktails here are no joke. They’re creative, balanced, and have just the right amount of flair.

Their New Fashioned is a fun twist on the classic Old Fashioned, and if you’re into something a little more playful, the Smoked Pineapple Margarita is a must. It’s the kind of drink that instantly makes you want to kick back and savor the moment.

Vibe Check: Casual, cozy, and perfect for pre- or post-event drinks. Ideal for when you’re not in the mood for anything too fancy but still want a killer cocktail.

Vintage Wine Bar: Classy Meets Cozy

If you’re more of a wine person but occasionally dabble in cocktails, Vintage Wine Bar is the perfect hybrid. Sure, their wine selection is on point, but their cocktail game is just as strong. Located in the Kendall-Whittier District, this spot offers a cozy, intimate vibe that feels like a hidden gem.

Try their French 75 or the Whiskey Sour for a cocktail experience that feels both elegant and approachable.

Vibe Check: Cozy, intimate, and unpretentious. Perfect for a low-key night out or a cozy date.

Boston Title & Abstract: Throwback Vibes and Timeless Cocktails

Boston Title & Abstract is one of those places where the vibe is as important as the drink in your hand. Located in Downtown Tulsa, this bar brings a throwback, vintage feel with its plush seating and moody lighting. It’s the perfect spot to sip on a classic cocktail and feel like you’ve stepped back in time.

Their Manhattan is a must, but if you’re feeling adventurous, go for the Paper Plane. It’s citrusy, balanced, and just the right amount of sweet.

Vibe Check: Old-school cool with a modern twist. Perfect for a classy night out.

Lounge at the Mayo: Historic Charm with a Cocktail Twist

For a little taste of Tulsa history with your drink, head to the Lounge at the Mayo. This spot is inside the historic Mayo Hotel, and the charm is undeniable. The cocktails are classic but well-executed, and the bartenders are more than happy to chat with you about the hotel’s storied past while they craft your drink.

Order the Sazerac or the French Martini, and then soak in the old-school glamour of the Mayo’s iconic lobby.

Vibe Check: Historic elegance with modern touches. Perfect for when you want a classy cocktail in a beautiful setting.

The Bottom Line: Tulsa’s Cocktail Scene Is All About Options

Whether you're in the mood for a tiki cocktail, a hidden speakeasy vibe, or rooftop drinks with a view, Tulsa’s cocktail scene has you covered. The best part? Each of these spots brings its own unique atmosphere, so no matter what kind of night you're after, there’s a perfect spot for you.

ps. #SpecialMention
Hodges Bend: Always in our hearts ❤️

Although this venue is no longer with us due to a fire tragedy, it didn’t seem right to do a “best of” and not include them. We hope and believe they will be back with us (soon) and in the meantime let’s reflect on what we loved about Hodges…

If there were ever a place that just gets it, it’s Hodges Bend. Coffee, cocktails, wine—they do it all. The vibe here is effortlessly cool, with a mix of modern chic and vintage warmth. You can start your day here with a latte (because you’re fancy like that), but the real magic happens once the sun goes down.

Hodges Bend is known for its craft cocktails, and their Old Fashioned is basically a work of art. They also make a killer Aviation if you’re feeling adventurous. The bartenders here are total pros, so don’t be shy about asking for something off-menu.

Vibe Check: Dimly lit, intimate, and perfect for when you want to feel like you’re in on one of Tulsa’s best-kept secrets.

Tulsa’s Best Kept Secret

Why Keystone Ancient Forest is Tulsa’s Best Kept Secret for Hikers

We’ve found our new favorite hiking spot, and it’s practically in our backyard. Today, we ventured out to Keystone Ancient Forest in Sand Springs, and let me tell you, this place is next level amazing. Whether you’re an experienced hiker or just looking for a beautiful way to spend a weekend outdoors, Keystone offers a little something for everyone.

If you’ve ever wondered what it’s like to hike in a forest that feels ancient (and by ancient, I mean trees that have been standing since before the Roman Empire), this is it. So grab your hiking boots—or heck, borrow one of their hiking sticks, that’s right…they loan out sticks for FREE! —and let me take you through why this hidden gem has completely won me over.

Keystone Ancient Forest: A Hiker’s Paradise Right in Tulsa’s Backyard

So here’s the thing: I’ve done my fair share of hiking, but few places compare to the experience I had at Keystone Ancient Forest. Located just a short drive from Tulsa, this forest isn’t just beautiful—it’s thoughtful. Every detail, from the ADA-accessible trails to the clearly marked paths, has been carefully designed to make sure everyone can enjoy what nature has to offer.

I mean, how often do you find a hiking spot with wheelchairs designed for trails, hiking sticks available to borrow, and even bug spray provided at the trailhead? And here’s the kicker: there are dog-friendly days, which—lucky us—just happened to be today! Our four-legged sweetie had the time of her life trotting alongside us on the trail. Not every place is this inclusive, and for that, Keystone gets major brownie points.

Friendly Staff and All the Comforts You Didn’t Know You Needed

Let’s talk about the volunteers. I wasn’t expecting to meet such friendly and knowledgeable people at a local trail, but the team at Keystone? They’re incredible. From offering tips on which trails to try based on your experience level to chatting about the local wildlife, or offering helpful suggestions for our family member with Dementia, they’re the type of people who genuinely love what they do. And it shows.

Now, let’s address a concern a discerning hiker such as myself is always looking at: the bathrooms. We’ve all been there—trekking through a beautiful forest only to come across a restroom situation that makes you want to turn back. Not here. The facilities at Keystone are new, clean, and dare I say, pleasant? I didn’t even think twice about using them, which is rare for a day in the wild. Trust me, you’ll appreciate it.

Oh, and did I mention the gift shop? It’s stocked with everything from super trendy t-shirts & stickers for your laptop or hydro (or I guess Stanley more appropriately these days) and 100% of the proceeds go directly back to supporting the trails. We couldn’t help but grab a few mementos to remember the day—and knowing our dollars were going to a good cause made it even sweeter.

The Trails: Marked to Perfection

Now, for the main event: the trails. You know how some hiking spots leave you second-guessing whether you’re still on the path or if you’ve accidentally wandered into uncharted territory? Not at Keystone. These trails are so clearly marked that it almost feels like they’re giving you a guided tour of the forest. No GPS necessary, just follow the signs and enjoy the journey.

The different trail options make it perfect for hikers of all levels. Whether you’re a newbie looking for a leisurely stroll or a seasoned pro ready to tackle something more challenging, there’s something for you. We stuck to a moderately challenging route today, and even with the occasional incline, it felt totally manageable.

And with 3 miles of trails, it’s a perfect place for spending a couple of hours immersed in nature without feeling overwhelmed. The changing seasons promise different experiences—so you bet I’ll be back to see what this place looks like when autumn hits.

Dog-Friendly Days? Say No More!

If you’re a dog lover like me, you know how tough it can be to find trails that welcome our furry friends. But at Keystone Ancient Forest, they get it. On select days, the trails are open to dogs, and our pup had the time of her life. There’s just something so special about seeing your dog romp around, tail wagging, that makes a day in the forest even better. While The Gathering Place has select days for dogs, Midland Valley and the riverfront trails allow dogs daily, making them perfect for everyday outings with your furry friends. But when it comes to the beautiful, ancient trees of Keystone and those special dog-inclusive days, it’s well worth checking the schedule and planning a trip!

Why Keystone Ancient Forest is More Than Just a Hike

Sure, Keystone Ancient Forest is a great place for a hike, but it’s more than that—it’s an experience. Whether you’re reconnecting with nature, taking your dog on an adventure, or just spending some quality time with friends and family, this place offers a chance to step away from the noise and breathe in some much-needed fresh air.

It’s the kind of place where you can take your time, stop to appreciate the ancient trees, and just be. And honestly, that’s what I loved the most about it. It’s not about rushing to the end of the trail—it’s about savoring the journey.

Our Takeaway: We’ll Be Back (A Lot)

There are plenty of beautiful hiking spots around Tulsa (shoutout to Turkey Mountain), but something about Keystone Ancient Forest feels extra special. It’s not just the pristine trails or the thoughtful amenities—it’s the way this place makes you feel connected to both nature and the community.

So yeah, we’ll definitely be back. We’re already planning to visit during different seasons to see how the forest changes. And if you haven’t been yet, trust me, you’ll want to add this place to your list.

Self-Care Spots In Tulsa

Local Happy Places + Simple Routines = a Happier You

Let’s get real for a second… When was the last time you truly focused on YOU? I mean, beyond the occasional coffee run or grabbing that impulse candle at Target (no shame, we all do it). Taking care of ourselves, especially in midlife, means intentionally making time to nurture our bodies, minds, and spirits. And trust me, self-care isn’t selfish—it’s essential for becoming the best version of YOU!

So, how can we start putting ourselves first without it feeling guilty about it, or having it feel like just another chore? I’m not gonna lie, I don’t have it all figured out either, but I will say that I’ve discovered some incredible self-care options right here in Tulsa that will leave you feeling refreshed, inspired, and, most importantly, loved!

Pamper Yourself at Poppi’s

Cheers to Couples Massages @ Poppi’s!

This place is a vibe, located in a fun part of town & is cute for a romantic date, or the perfect space to just unwind solo. Worth checking out for sure.
We rate it a 4 / 5 🥂🥂

If your body is screaming for some much-needed R&R (and let’s face it, whose isn’t?), head to Poppi’s Spa for the ultimate relaxation experience. This place is pure bliss from the moment you step in. Whether you opt for a full-body massage, a rejuvenating facial, or just soak in the peaceful atmosphere, you’ll leave feeling like a whole new person. And hey, you deserve it!

Get Moving at Gathering Place

Let’s talk endorphins! Nothing boosts your mood like a little movement, and Tulsa’s Gathering Place is the spot to make it happen. Whether you’re up for a brisk walk, a peaceful yoga session by the lake, or a scenic bike ride, this park has it all. I’m extra excited about heading out to this side of town especially now that the pedestrian bridge (Williams Crossing) & water park at the riverfront are now open! I don’t know about you, but I find that whenever I’m stressed, just being in nature can turn a blah day into something beautiful.
Pro tip: Grab a friend and catch up while you walk—mental health boost included!

Unwind at Woodward Park’s Rose Garden

Need a moment to just breathe? The Woodward Park Rose Garden is one of my favorite spots in Tulsa for a quick mental reset. Surrounded by the most beautiful blooms, you can sit on a bench with your journal, meditate, or just let yourself be. The calming vibe of this garden makes it impossible not to feel at peace. 🌹

Nourish Your Body at Foolish Things Coffee

Self-care also means fueling our bodies with things that make us feel good. Foolish Things Coffee is the perfect cozy corner to grab a latte, settle in with a good book, and enjoy some you time. Their atmosphere is as inviting as their menu, and the coffee? Perfection. Treat yourself to one of their pastries, and you’ll feel that self-care glow in no time!

Expand Your Mind at Magic City Books

Sometimes, self-care means getting lost in the pages of a great book. Magic City Books is a local treasure where you can wander the aisles and find your next favorite read. The shop’s vibe is so warm and inviting, you’ll want to stay a while. Grab a book that inspires growth or helps you unwind—whether it’s a novel or something on wellness—and give yourself permission to disappear into a world of words. 📚

Take a Healing Nature Walk at Turkey Mountain

Nothing clears your mind like a hike through nature. If you’re craving a deeper connection to the earth (or just need to escape the hustle for a bit), Turkey Mountain Urban Wilderness offers trails that range from easy to challenging, so you can choose your adventure. Being in nature is a sure-fire way to reduce stress, and the trails and earthy ambiance are the perfect combo to reset that stress and inhale some fresh air!

No matter if you check out any of the spots or not, keep in mind that prioritizing self-care can be as simple as giving yourself a moment to slow down, breathe, and recharge. Whether it’s a home spa day, a quiet walk around the neighborhood, or curling up with a good book, it’s so important to make the time for yourself—because we’re worth it.
As a newer Oklahoma transplant & now a Tulsa homeowner (thank you Tulsa Remote!) I can confidently say that Tulsa offers endless opportunities to reconnect with yourself, and I’m cheering you on every step of the way!

Stay kind to yourself, friend! ❤️